Sunday, January 31, 2010

christmas: food & family

we're finally settling down after the holidays (that, and i figured i ought to get my christmas post in before february), which were wonderful. oliver understood the concept quite a bit more this year, which made it all the more fun and special; hannah spent a week with us; and of course, we ate a ton of food.

christmas eve, i made our traditional meal of shrimp and grits. (oliver had fish sticks, since he's not a big fan of shrimp yet, but he gobbled up the grits without a problem.)

oliver and i also made gingerbread cookies. he gets quite a kick out of helping me bake, and he always offers to lick the beaters. instead of gingerbread men, we made gingerbread robots (bryan's idea; i had picked up the cookie cutter at williams-sonoma the day before). i think it will become a new tradition!


after dinner, bryan and oliver played guitar hero. i'm not much for video games, but this was pretty darn cute.




before bed, we opened 1 present each - our new pajamas.


then it was christmas morning! bryan and i relaxed with some coffee and baileys while oliver thoroughly enjoyed ripping open all his presents (and then going after ours).




oliver got right down to business playing with some of his favorites:

an r2d2 playdoh set -



a wooden crocodile, paint-your-own-style (his first experience with paints, which he very much enjoyed) -


and a little wooden monkey bowling set -



after nap, we headed over to mom and dad's house for more presents, and christmas dinner.




adrianne made oliver the coolest gift ever - an r2d2 quilt. she cut every piece separately from fabric and sewed them all on with varying colors of thread. she poured tons of work and love into it, and it's obvious - it is amazing. oliver loves it (he sleeps on it every night now). when he saw it, he gasped, ran up to it, and hugged it. adrianne said it made all her hard work worth it!



our contribution to dinner was appetizers. i went retro, with shrimp cocktail (i used fresh horseradish in the sauce and WOW that stuff packs a kick!) and stuffed celery (inspired by this recipe, but i prefer smoked cheddar to the blue cheese, and i don't bother blending it).



for dinner, mom prepared a pancetta wrapped beef tenderlion (the pancetta purchased from bolzano meats) with a red wine mushroom sauce, roasted potatoes, roasted root vegetables, a salad, and homemade crescent rolls.



the following day, hannah arrived! which meant more present opening. this time, oliver couldn't understand why most of the presents weren't for him. we had saved him a few to open that day, but apparently, it wasn't enough.




that night for dinner, i made a traditional style spaghetti alla carbonara using the guanciale we bought from bolzano meats.


let's get a close up of that, shall we?


almost too pretty to eat.

i've been rather intrigued and charmed by cream sauces that contain no cream. awhile back, we first made original fettuccine alfredo recipe, which uses only butter, cheese, and some pasta water to make the creamy sauce. it not only worked, but was better than all other roux/cream based alfredos i had in the past. so when i stumbled across the carbonara recipe, which uses only eggs and cheese for the sauce, i knew i had to try it. and i finally - FINALLY! - had access to real guanciale.

the result was pretty close to perfection. i loved it. this cream-less cream sauce thing is my new favorite.


mom, dad, shannon, dirk, and adrianne joined us.


which meant more presents.


and triple the silliness. i blame hannah.



we decided to go sledding sunday, so that we could get it in while we had snow and before we got too busy. we headed out to currie golf course, where hannah was confronted with the biggest sledding hill she's ever seen. i thought oliver would be too afraid - the hill is truly huge, and with all the cold weather, very frozen, meaning very slick and fast. we were flying down the hill!! but he loved it! after awhile, he wasn't too thrilled with the snow flying up in his face, and hannah didn't last too long in the cold either (and i believe she was a little bit afraid of the super fast hill, too!).







that night, i could have almost messed up dinner, but instead i made an awesome dinner. i had planned korean braised short ribs (galbi jim), but instead of defrosting short ribs, i defrosted spare ribs. oops. bryan assured me they would work, with a slightly different cooking time. i began by following the recipe as written - same marinade, and i simmered the ribs. after 2 hours, i checked on them, and decided that the marinade lacked the flavor i was looking for. so, i made up another batch of marinade, similar to the first, but with a few changes - sugar, soy sauce, mirin, garlic, sesame seeds, honey, ginger, and molasses. my goal was a sticky, sweet and savory sauce. would you believe it worked? i cooked the ribs for another 2 hours with the new marinade added to the sauce; the various sugars caramelized and helped to thicken the sauce. the final dish was exactly the flavor i was looking for.

from there, we moved into the week. it was good to have the whole family together again!


monday, bryan and hannah headed up to the farm. bryan helped them out with some computer problems, and hannah went skiing with kay and her daughter, sarah. hannah had never been skiing before, but had been asking about it, so she was thrilled!

while they were gone, i tried some new things for dinner - crockpot rotisserie chicken and stovetop mac n cheese. the chicken seems like it shouldn't work, but i kept reading good things about the method, so i decided to give it a try. i made a seasoned salt using lemon salt (which mom made us for christmas), black pepper, garlic, thyme, paprika, and marjoram. i rubbed the bird with olive oil, then the salt mix. at the bottom of the crockpot, i put 5 loose balls of foil, plopped the bird in, and that was that. i let the skin crisp under the broiler for a few minutes before we sat down to eat. i thought it worked out rather well. the meat was moist, the skin was crisp and tasty with the salt like that - very similar to a rotisserie chicken. the mac and cheese was another roux-less experiment. instead of roux or cream, the recipe calls for butter and evaporated milk. it came out very, very creamy. and it's definitely an easier and quicker method than a roux. oliver wasn't complaining, either.

luckily for hannah, this year we actually had a good bit of snow for her to play in. it seems most years the big snowfalls seem to miss her visits. she tried to teach oliver to make a snowman, but the snow was too powdery for packing, and oliver was more interested in tossing it in the air and yelling "SNOWBALL!" anyway.





wednesday, we braved the obvious perils of a road trip with a toddler, and drove to chicago for the day. oliver did amazingly well on the ride down; so well, in fact, that as soon as we arrived and i realized how lucky we were, i began to wonder what the catch was and experience a profound sense of dread. luckily, the problem was that being cooped up in his car seat for 2 hours meant lots of unspent energy that he wanted to release; but unfortunately, our first stop (the shedd aquarium) was such a zoo that we couldn't possibly let him run free.

we arrived around 9:30 a.m., which was shortly after the aquarium opened. we parked down the block (the avoid the $15 parking fee - WTH, CHICAGO?!), and decided to leave the stroller in the car, since that's usually what we do at the museums here. ha ha, joke was on us. the place was PACKED. woe is the parent of a toddler who forgets that all kids are out of school during christmas vacation. i only had to wait in line for 15 minutes or so for tickets, but there were already a TON of people there - wall to wall (though, it's a good thing we got there when we did, since when we left, all lines in the lobby were full, out the door, down the steps, and going around the block - those people must have waited a good 2 hours in the snow). so mostly we had to resort to bryan carrying oliver on his shoulders, which incited quite a few not so quiet riots. between oliver and the crowds, we didn't get to stroll around so much as we had hoped. he and hannah had fun anyways, though next time we'd probably skip the masses (and the $70 it cost us to get in) and do something else.






after we wrapped things up at the aquarium, we headed to lou malnati's for lunch. i know, i know - a chain. not our original plan. actually, our original plan had been hot doug's, but they were closed for the holidays (something i fortuitously thought to check before we went). as we were eating later than intended, and already encroaching on oliver's nap time, and both kids voted pizza, we found the closest place we could. next time, we'll hopefully plan a little better.

after lunch, we drove over to the museum of science and industry. sadly, we needed to get on the road and get oliver napping, so we didn't get to spend much time here. i forgot how huge that place is! we did get to see the u-505 sub, which is pretty darn cool. we plan on heading back in the summer and making that a full day destination.




the next day was new year's eve. for breakfast, i made pineapple pancakes with mango cream. shannon had sent me a recipe for pineapple upside down pancakes, which i modified a bit. i didn't have kashi cereal, so i used cornflakes; instead of buttermilk, i used regular lactaid milk; i opted to skip the maple syrup; and i didn't let them sit in the fridge more than 15 minutes or so. instead of syrup, i whipped up some heavy cream with cubed mango and a little sugar.



bryan had promised me tamales for dinner (YES!), and as we normally have the family over for NYE dinner, shannon came over to lend a hand.



they made quite a few, of a few different varieties - roast pork, bean, and corn.


we served them with homemade caesar salad, guacamole, pinto beans, and homemade queso freso.


i don't get tamales very often, but they are definitely worth the wait.




shannon made a flourless chocolate torte for dessert, with chocolate and chile for a little kick. it wasn't very spicy, so oliver and hannah had no problems eating their slices.


new years day, we celebrated the new year with food. are you starting to notice a pattern here?

hannah had requested a french toast casserole, which i thought would be perfect to have the morning of the 1st. last year, we tried a paula deen recipe, but this year when i came across one that involved cream cheese, i was happy to make the switch. that along with a little bacon was more than enough to fill us up for the morning.


as accorded by tradition, we usually have corned beef, black eyes peas, and greens or cabbage for dinner on the 1st. however, we forgot about corning a brisket until it was too late (don't worry, we will remember for st. patrick's day). i didn't want bryan to go totally without so we had corned beef sandwiches for lunch. when i asked the deli lady for shaved corned beef, she asked if i really meant shaved, or did i just mean really thin. um, no, i meant shaved. which is why i said it. it's rare that i misspeak about my food, woman.

that evening, shannon, hannah, and i went roller skating. there is a friday "roller party" at a rink way the heck out in cedarburg that was recommended to us, so we decided to give it a go. we had a blast! it took us a little while to feel stable on the skates (somehow, ice skating is easier), but we had fun. they had tons of games, a music request list (so i could remember my younger days at the roller rink by skating to some guns'n'roses), and some interesting people to watch. i don't think we'd drive 40 minutes to go to the same one again (there's a rink about 5 minutes from our house), but it was a fun night out.





that saturday was hannah's last full day with us. i decided we'd start the day with cardamom caramel rolls. the recipe calls for ground cardamom. we have cardamom pods. have you ever had to shell and grind cardamom? it's not exactly like shelling peanuts. i decided to do extra, since it's such a royal pain. it took me 40 minutes or so. oh, the things i will do for baked goods.

the rolls turned out pretty good. my only complaint was that in order to have them in the morning, i had to make them the night before (yeast being what it is and all), which meant the caramel sugar mix on the bottom was cold, and even the hour or so i let them rise before baking wasn't enough to come to temperature so that the caramel got gooey and sticky when baking. if doing these overnight, it might be better to leave the caramel mix at room temp, and switch the rolls from a tray in the fridge (without caramel) to a room temp tray (with the caramel). still, the rolls didn't suck. the cardamom lent a different but not unwelcome flavor.

that evening, mom, dad, and shannon joined us for dinner. hannah had requested macaroni pie, and i was inspired by this recipe for tacaroni (taco-ish flavored mac n cheese). i made taco flavored meat, with chile powder, garlic, onions, oregano, and cumin, and some tomatoes. plenty of cheese later (and some evaporated milk for creaminess), it went into a baking dish. instead of the traditional bread crumbs on top, i smashed some tortilla chips on top, and sprinkled them with lemon salt and chile powder. baked until happy. everyone really loved this. i made a gluten/dairy free version for dad (using quinoa pasta and soymilk), and he requested it from mom while we were eating it.


for dessert, i made chocolate cream pie, because i am just that great of a wife/mom/stepmom/daughter/sister. (except in the case of dad, since this was most definitely not dairy free, though i briefly considered trying to make it so, then decided to not even try to pretend it could be anywhere near as good if i did, and instead just bought him dairy free chocolate ice cream.) in any case, everyone loved me just a little bit more after that dinner.




it was a good final night to hannah's visit.




more pictures online, of course.

i'd like to say we're looking forward to relaxing some, but knowing us, it'll never happen. i'm trying to plan a trip to atlanta for oliver and i, hannah will be coming to spend her spring break with us, and before we know it, summer will be upon us - at least, that's what i'm hoping. i am ready for spring weather!

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

just say no



i know i am beyond passionate about this topic, but the importance of this particular subject cannot be downplayed. this is critical. we need to take control of our food supply NOW, before it is too late. even if you do not buy organic and have no plans to, you must understand the legislature that is threatening to take away that choice, and to force unresearched and harmful un-foods upon us.

i don't expect everyone to become a champion of local, organic, and beyond organic farming. but i cannot stand ignorance. it is the irresponsibility of ignorance that allows monsanto and others to foist this poison on our population. EDUCATE YOURSELF!

please watch this video.

then please TAKE ACTION and contact your congressmen and senators.

more information on GMOs and their harmful effects:

Monsanto's GMO Corn Linked To Organ Failure

Failure to Yield: their investigation into the biotechnology industry's claims that GM will produce higher yields

GM Corn Varieties on Mammalian Health

GMOs are killing the Bees

Gone to Seed: investigation into contamination of traditional seeds by Genetically Engineered crops

Patent for a Pig

Killing off our farmers

Union Of Concerned Scientists have some excellent reports and resources

Sunday, January 24, 2010

maxie's southern comfort: take two

last night, after bryan and i went to the Dead Sea Scrolls and the Bible: Ancient Artifacts, Timeless Treasures exhibit at the Milwaukee Public Museum (which we highly recommend seeing, by the way), we headed over to Maxie's Southern Comfort for dinner and a drink. sadly, our experience was not as good as my last one.

as before, the service was great. the staff is quick, attentive, and knowledgeable about the menu. the hostess (or is she the manager?) knows her job is to make everyone feel like they know you there, and she does her job very, very well (and none of it seems forced). she absolutely adds extra points to the whole experience.

we sat in the upstairs lounge for a few minutes while we waited for a table, and ordered drinks. i ordered the maker's mark mint julep, and bryan ordered the bloody mary. my julep had a lot of mint in it, but it wasn't muddled at all, so it didn't taste at all minty. but i really didn't mind much, since i love bourbon. god, i really love bourbon. it's just so dang yummy. anyways. bryan enjoyed his bloody mary quite a bit as well.

when we got to our table, we immediately were presented with corn bread and whipped butter (which has a hint of... orange?... in it). not shabby, but mine is better. mine is pretty rockin', though, so it's kind of an unfair comparison. (bryan says the only place to get better cornbread than mine is daddy d'z, and they have a secret recipe, and we're pretty sure they don't bake their bread, but rather somehow cook it just near the smoker through, perhaps, magic. that stuff is like candy, at least in my memory.)

one of the appetizer specials that evening was chicken chips - fried chicken skin, as made famous by Top Chef contestant Kevin Gillespie. when bryan saw kevin do it, he immediately wanted to try it. his version didn't come out quite right, but we later found the recipe, though we haven't tried recreating it at home again yet. so when we had the opportunity to try it last night, of course we had to. yummy. not quite as good as rendered pork fat, but really, what is? they served the chicken chips with some kind of sweet, thick vinaigrette-y type of sauce, which didn't do much for me. bryan was on cloud 9 though. (and on the way out, the hostess was joking that the chicken chips were good for you, and don't worry about the fat... she obviously doesn't know us. we have no problems with fat, thank you very much. i'll hide pork fat from my dinner guests and eat it myself, i'm that possessive and mean.)

sadly, our entrees were far less delicious. they weren't bad, they were just... not fully there.

bryan had the Pulled Pork Plate: eastern north carolina-style, creamy slaw, bbq beans. while the pork was very tender and nicely smokey, they either forgot to put the vinegar sauce on, or aren't too clear on how to make a vinegar sauce. there was no sweet, no hot, no vinegar tang. the pork was, well, watery. like it had been sitting in a steam tray full of water. which, it probably was, and we understand why, but... there's a better way to serve that. the creamy slaw wasn't very good either. the sauce just lacked flavor, completely. and the cabbage tasted a little old. i understand it's january in wisconsin, it's probably cold storage cabbage, but then, come up with a better option to dress it. bryan did enjoy the beans, however. he also ordered a side of their maple collard greens. if you've ever seen a raw collard green leaf, you know those suckers have to be cooked a looooong time. they are tough. i'm pretty sure you cold thatch a roof with raw collards. unfortunately, these were not cooked long enough, and were still a little too tough. and the the maple, though seemingly a good idea, didn't work, bryan said.

i ordered the Blackened Catfish Po'Boy w/ tartar sauce. it came with cajun fries (seasoned waffle fries). blackened fish is usually coated in a heavy seasoning - the spices are what blacken. while there was blackened something on the fish, i'm not sure it was spices. the fish just completely lacked flavor. it was tender, it was moist - but it was flavorless. as was the tartar sauce (mayo mixed with pickle, red pepper, and capers) - all you could taste was mayo. i'd much rather have a traditional remoulade. there were tomatoes on the sandwich, which is a traditional addition, but really - tomatoes, in wisconsin in january? just leave them off. we won't miss them. the fries were good - very nicely seasoned, which just highlighted the lack of flavor in the sandwich. i didn't eat 2/3 of the sandwich. there was just no point. i like to think i make a mean po'boy, so maybe i was over critical, but i don't think i was (bryan validated that the fish just had zero flavor - which is just so odd for anything blackened!).

we got everything wrapped up to go, hoping we may be able to salvage the leftovers at home.

i'm not ready to give up on this place yet. the beef brisket was really good last time, and i'm willing to try a few more things on the menu. i'm fully willing to admit that maybe i just want to like this place. maybe i just want a place that reminds me of atlanta. maybe i just want more of that beef brisket. if anything, i can at least count on getting a nice glass of bourbon there.

Saturday, January 23, 2010

anthony bourdain: LIVE


when bryan and i learned tony bourdain would be coming to milwaukee, we knew we had to see him. we've been fans since a cook's tour, we watch no reservations, count his les halles cookbook among our favorites (steak frites and pork roast in milk, need i say more?), and of course own kitchen confidential, a cook's tour, and the nasty bits. in our house, he is referred to simply as "tony". (much in the way julia child is simply "julia". shut up, we're totally on a first name basis with our idols cum imagined mentors). this is all to say - we're big fans.

so last night we took ourselves downtown to the riverside theater to see him. i've been to a good number of shows in my time, to see people i consider myself a die hard fan of. but there are very few people who have given me chills and taken my breath away to see walk out on stage (eddie izzard is one; probably the first time i saw ani difranco, and absolutely nick cave). i wasn't expecting it with tony bourdain, but it happened. he is someone i greatly respect for his cooking, for how this travels shape a unique and inspiring world view, and for his writing, the tool with which he inspires.

we had some initial sound problems, but 3 or 4 microphones later, we were well on our way into a good show. he spoke about traveling, about eating, about family. he made fun of rachel ray, the food network, and sandra lee. he is a very entertaining speaker, and it is obvious that he regards his success with no small amount of humility and thankfulness.

he did speak very briefly about organics/sustainable farming. he has said in the past, in writing, that he doesn't care where it comes from or how it was grown - as long as it tastes good, he'll be eating it. and he still believes that to a certain degree. but he did say that in the past few years, he has learned more about the way our food is grown and raised, and that he no longer feels one can responsibly ignore what is happening with the food supply in our country. i got the impression he felt it was less important to eat local/organic, as it is incredulous that our food supply may be making us sick. his point was that he should be able to walk into a grocery store and not be afraid to buy anything. that what we are sold as food should only be food. and that it should be affordable. so i think we have the same end goal, perhaps slightly different paths. though he did freely admit that his daughter eats nothing but organic.

after his talk, he took some questions from the audience, the majority of which were wasted on really lame questions (about 5 girls asked if he would go out drinking with them after the show).

after the show, bryan and i stopped in john hawks pub for some extremely disappointing cocktails. we ducked in there since it was next to the theater, and bryan had previously enjoyed a nice lunch there. it's a rather depressing pub - bright fluorescent lights, no ambiance. bryan had a watered down martini, and i had an overly sweet and altogether terrible bourbon old fashioned. that's what we get for being lame and not knowing any good dive bars downtown.